a Response to Bloggers’ questions regarding alternative lifestyles.

I define spirituality as a search for love, beauty, happiness and wisdom. Spirituality is a journey that we never finish. It has nothing to do with our levels of development, achievement, awareness or intention.

Both a two year-old and a centenarian might not be wise, happy or altruistic yet highly spiritual. Young children might not be fully aware how spiritual they are, however, without childlike sincerity and purity we cannot even imagine certain touch of holiness.

Hitler, too, tried to create his own version of perfect, healthy and stable society. For many he was an epitome of farsightedness and spirituality. The Pope even blessed Hitler’s army. Was Hitler spiritual? Yes. In his own diabolic and hideous way.

How do we weigh levels of spirituality? Are alternative lifestyles less spiritual than traditional ones? Some people abstain from all intimate relationships, because they believe they have to devote their time to love all mankind in a childlike genuineness. Others form monogamous heterosexual relationships. While others create bonds outside all traditional rules.

From the standpoint of eternity each level of maturity is relative. We are all spiritual, and we are all different. Neither higher, nor lower. Neither farther, nor closer. Neither deeper, nor more shallow. Just uniquely different. Looking at a blossom from a different direction one will see it completely foreign, special, beautiful or revolting depending on where we stand. If the close-up is of a spider attached to the stem, then for those who don’t like spiders the sight will look distasteful. If the image is of a butterfly on a petal the view may appear peaceful to us, but not for a bird hungrily watching the scene.

From the standpoint of our present world we all assign our measurements of preference. Given the choice we will join families and groups based on our interests. We attract those with similar values and ideals. People crave belonging. So whether it is a national, racial, religious, political, educational, vocational or biological identification we try to connect to something familiar and within our comfort zone.

Clear messages of diverse feelings experienced by other people were part of my visionary and extrasensory perception since I was five years of age. I do not condemn any personal choices for intimate relationships. Love is love. I detest only the violence and trauma that any self-centered conduct can cause to others.

After returning from my trip to Canada I decided to share about my younger brother Ilia not because he is the youngest philosopher in the world, but because of his connection to life. When so much vanity and indifference proliferate, to me Ilia remains a true role model of pure and selfless humanity. As my mother once said: “Ilia cannot be unnoticed and is full of extroverted surprises; one day he almost kills himself climbing to the tree top, another day refuses to co-operate as we deal with an emergency medical situation, and another—he makes a decision to donate both of his kidneys to a total stranger on the phone who is terminally ill. Ilia’s personality and genius is an enigma, to this day unsolved.”

Ilia

Featured on The Richest Kids-Entrepreneurs of America, Three Cord Ministries, numerous book signings & auctions, Ilia is also a conceptual artist, a poet, humanitarian, philanthropist and speaker donating most of his profits from books and art to Smile Network that treats children’s facial deformities.

The following information I selected are excerpts from his website iliapoetry.com:

Ilia believes he can tackle the most dangerous issues with his Quantum philosophy ~ the poetic science about the unexplained phenomena of the universe. Ilia is sometimes called: the boy who hears the footsteps of the future and who recites the most intricate literary theorems and computations.

He has created almost 3000 philosophical poems, aphorisms, quantum ideas about infinite possibilities and our future consisting of 20 books, the first of which got published when Ilia was 6.

Ilia is unique: He does not read or write. He does not go to school. He does not listen to any stories from books or story telling. He does not play sports. He does not play video games or use computer. He does not watch television. He does not play with toys or in playgrounds.

He has poor memory. He battles immune system problems. He is friendly, spirited and super sensitive. He understands humor and wit, and is very socially engaging with adults, but not always his peers. He is bilingual, and has an accent in both Lithuanian and English languages. He is usually not articulate, but in sporadic moments in front of people displays amazing oratory abilities.

Usually Ilia’s reasoning is age appropriate, but during special inspiration times his creative IQ noticeably escalates, and he spontaneously creates with any theme that is suggested to him.

I saw life fall in search of me,
but it could not find me,
because I was hiding in the box waiting
for my extraordinary destiny.

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I own the most special thing — the galaxy itself.
Then for me no one is a thief.

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For prosperity of this day and for prosperity of the human eye
it is better to see than to seek.
But for prosperity of eternity and prosperity of the infinite eye
it is better to seek than to see.

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Misery does not recognize choices.
Bravery does not recognize difficulties.

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Every monster wants to be a hero.
But no hero wants to be a monster.

Ilia, age 7


Reviews of Ilia’s work: ages 6-8

“Ilia’s philosophy is phenomenal!”
Mark Victor Hanson, author of “Chicken Soup of the Soul”
president of the Richest Kids-Entrepreneurs of America

“Spending time with this 7-year-old, and his writings, is like spending time with Buddha or Jesus…The experience was transformational beyond words!’
Dr. Leonard G. Horowitz, D.M.D., M.A., M.PH. Ph.D.
Award Winning Author, Lecturer, Executive Producer, Humanitarian, and Scholar

“I believe Ilia’s stunning literary work will someday be studied at Universities.”
Roberta Lee Tennant, novelist, poet, editor and publisher

“Ilia is a gifted young child. His spirit and wisdom is so much larger than his years.”
Eddie Barbini/Executive Producer/Dirty Jobs/Miracle Detective/USA

Few of us ever have such refined discernment and keen vision in a life-time, let alone by the age of six. Ilia is an old spirit.
LaVona L. Reeves, PhD, Professor of English/Eastern Washington University

“Ilia is a genius!”
Producers/ Supreme Master Television

The First

“The First” painted at age 15 is my own interpretation of pure love.
I believe the human body is an incredible work of art worthy of artistic adoration, spiritual reflection and physical intimacy.

Trying to remain modest and pure around the bombardment of global moral indecency is getting harder and harder for many young people, but I believe there is a solution once we find out the cause and affect:
1- Availability. Nowadays inappropriate adult materials are so widely circulated, it is virtually impossible to control them. Our civilization permitted this to happen—many countries would not even consider such repulsiveness to be displayed anywhere. Even though in those conservative value cultures a few addicts do obtain degenerate and decadent sources through illegal means, the masses, especially children, in general, remain protected.

The most frequently visited sites on internet are actually pornography, and 90% of all photos on internet are those of naked women. Hotels and corporations in every city receive pornography via cable, satellite television and cyberspace.
2- Profits. Porn revenue is over $100 billion worldwide through adult videos & clubs, magazines, phone and escort services, cable/satellite/pay-per-view TV, CD-ROM/DVD-ROM, Internet sales and memberships and novelties. The largest credit card company makes $35 million per month off of e-porn.

Major hotel chains such as Marriott make more from pay-per-view adult movies than from snack and drinks sales in mini-bars. The owner of DirecTV and AT&T (owner of Hot Network) have brought these perverted images even to Wall Street.
3- Natural Curiosity brings teenagers and vulnerable adults to pornography creating for many an addiction that completely distorts self respect, relationships producing more divorce, sexual abuse and tainted view of conduct.

In the past seven thousand years in Indian, Chinese, African and South American statues, carvings and scrolls simply depicted love scenes and normal anatomy of males and females.

Today, however, the world media displays abnormal perversions of love through violent and revolting acts. Millions of children are exposed to the most extreme XXX sites through unfiltered Internet access in homes, schools and libraries.
4- Misunderstanding of our biology. Many teenagers are encouraged to pursue only education or work, not pursuing a family, yet interest in normal physical connections is still there, and their suppression or denial in combination with curiosity and strong biological impulses produce unwanted pregnancies, shame, diseases, addiction in horrific perversions of normal sexuality.

I was very fortunate to be raised by parents who not only encouraged chastity, but also early marriage, if I so chose. I have not found my love-prince yet, but I am committed to purity focusing on loving relationships and their artistic interpretations.
5- All actions are recorded. Those who know beyond the shadow of the doubt, that someone is watching them all the time (God, angels, departed family members or you yourself) desire each day to be full of meaning, and positive energy.

All matter is a precise recording system, permanently recording our actions to the smallest details. Fortunately and for some unfortunately, it is un-erasable.

Think of it as a Museum of Memories, where purpose of life is to create the most selfless and beautiful actions and reactions. What kind of exhibition would you like to display: images of vanity and filth that will eventually be your biggest regret or your love and light – the biggest spiritual and mental achievements?

Wouldn’t you rather have the displays of wisdom, philosophy and devotion instead of your own live cosmic humiliation video that no one can ever erase no matter what the galactic bribe.

Each of us must watch where we participate, because the most brutal judge is actually you yourself being horribly and continually disappointed at your own dishonorable failures.

I remember when I was about six years of age, my spiritual self was being able to follow my parents to far away trips and report 100 percent accurately everything they said and did. I was seeing them, but they could not see me. They were convinced of my spiritual evidence that there are always other worlds that persistently supervise and record everything here on earth.

What kind of Memory Museum would you want to create for eternity?

How would you want to be remembered by your own parents, children, grandchildren, or friends who will always have an immediate access to your own cosmic memory files that never get deleted?

Where would you like your life to be displayed—
in the Halls of Shame or in the Halls of Fame?
JesusRebirthThis Easter is a huge celebration for many. For others it is just an ordinary weekend. For some Easter is a pagan holiday, a celebration of Ishtar (goddess of fertility). For others it is about the resurrection of Jesus Christ. What does Easter mean to you? And what traditions do you have?
RebirthI have chosen the image Rebirth to best summarize my feelings this Easter.

Rebirth is a story of transformation from life to death, and from death back to life. The vines full of blossoms have surrounded slowly eroding pillars and fully participate in extending their last moments of life.

Only a few of the columns are left to support the unity of decaying and crumbling structure, but by the time the architectural antique is completely gone, the rose-vine garden will stand in its place. Rebirth symbolizes a continuous restoration of matter and spirit where the end is part of further growth.
Rebirth

As eternity rampages our destiny
yesterday refuses to remember today.


By remodeling our destiny
we may forget what has been replaced.


At a guillotine struggles take a crown of misery,
and icicle eyes melt like an unsolved riddle.


But just like a dream being nursed to life ~
we are nursed back to eternity.

Enlightenment

I was always interested in Asian culture, and recently my interest focused on Southeast Asia—India, in particular.

My dilemma was that there were virtually no Asian Indians in our local area, and if I had worked only from my imagination, it still would not have been enough, because any authentic culture demands a thorough knowledge of traditions and customs.

Ironically, a few months later a gentleman from England called my gallery to make an appointment with me. When he arrived to our Idaho gallery we were stunned to see a Hindu Swami from top to bottom dressed in his own traditional robes.

His intention was only to share an urgent, confidential and spiritual message, then return back home. But after hearing him, we all convinced him to stay with us longer. During five days of his visit he was teaching us about his culture and faith, eventually agreeing to model for me.

This turned out to be a four-month-long painting project, because every detail had to be authentically accurate.

The Enlightenment is not only about the Hindu worship and prayer, but about all of us finding our own way to spiritual enlightenment, peace and contentment.

Respecting the differences of our spiritual crossroad paths demonstrates maturity and is part of reaching the enlightenment.

Everybody needs time to reflect and contemplate, and the most inspirational and peaceful place to do so is the nature.

Through the Swami’s focus on beauty, wisdom and love everything is reviving, both spiritual and physical thirst is getting quenched, and the scorched hill is releasing its first flower as a symbol of rebirth.

Many people from across the world appreciate, respect and understand my work, but recently quite a few contacted my gallery with a complaint that I painted ’’Enlightenment ’’, a story about a Hindu swami.

Their irate comments are mostly coming from fundamentalist Christians who do not accept any themes apart from their own approved biblical characters.

Their concern is that I got deceived by the Devil who allegedly sent a Hindu swami across the whole world as counterfeit to Jesus’s model. Ironically, both models for Jesus and the monk paintings came through my very front door almost miraculously.

They are saddened, because they are convinced that I had lost my discernment between good and evil. Other groups of Christians accused me of the same in the past when I chose to paint even Jesus. A few even suggested that I should burn all my paintings and writings.

These people fail to comprehend that I am a journalist visionary artist who paints diverse cultures, faiths and realities from both the visible and non visible realms.

I am still learning and discovering new cultures, but I can assure you that the monk is no different from all of us who are seeking god and the truth.

In fact, he is one of the most humble, friendly, accepting and giving individuals I have ever met in my life, and during the four days he stayed with us, I found out that he was an answer to my prayer; for the past year I had been seeking to learn about different traditions and indigenous cultures from around the world.

I have been growing as an individual, and my understanding on life has significantly widened in ways I cannot describe, and only through my art can I fully reveal my new perspectives.

I am a citizen not only of this world, but of the whole universe, and I will continue expressing all of its faces, personalities and emotions.

As someone said: ‘’Even the stopped clock can show the correct time twice a day’’, I choose to be outside the time and robotic limitations of this finite world’s alarm clock.